The Collaborative International Dictionary
Commiserative
Commiserative \Com*mis"er*a*tive\, a.
Feeling or expressing commiseration.
--Todd.
Wiktionary
commiserative
a. Feeling or expressing commiseration, compassion, pity or sympathy
WordNet
commiserative
adj. feeling or expressing sympathy; "made commiserative clicking sounds with his tongue"- Kenneth Roberts
Usage examples of "commiserative".
The re mark is made in all innocence, merely one of missis Savage's commiserative asides, but Graice Courtney feels a prick of something like anger: Really?