Wiktionary
a. 1 (context idiomatic colloquial slang English) aroused, especially sexually 2 (context idiomatic colloquial slang English) aggravated or irritated
WordNet
Usage examples of "hot and bothered".
The Japs always got all hot and bothered when they saw fewer men than they expected.
Besides, I couldn't trust you, and before you start getting all hot and bothered about that I might add that I don't mean you'd deliberately give me away or anything like that but that you may inadvertently give me away.
What she would really like was to destroy his control, to have him as hot and bothered and on the verge of madness as she was.
Mutt figured preachers somewhere were getting hot and bothered about that.
No point to getting the United States all hot and bothered, not as far as I can tell.
I want you to keep him running every which way, so he's too busy and hot and bothered to come and fight a pitched battle with the whole army.